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Truth
Did your child
ever ask if you did tried drugs?
Experts agree
that it’s best to be honest. Behavioral scientist Tony Biglan, Ph.D.,
suggests that answering untruthfully can cause you to lose credibility with
your kids if they ever discover that you’ve lied to them. You may decide
that the time is not right to discuss the topic. Provide an appropriate
answer based on your child’s level of maturity.
When you are ready to talk, you
don’t need to go into detail. Give short, honest answers like these:
"Everybody makes mistakes. When I used drugs, I made a big one. I’m telling
you about this even though it’s embarrassing, because I love you and I want
to save you from making the same mistake."
If you’ve never experimented, share
that truth as well. Offer refusal skills that worked for you or other ways
you found to deal with peer pressure. When this question is asked, bear in
mind: Questions about your past drug use can be a signal that your child is
curious, has been exposed or has tried a substance. Use the question as an
opportunity for discussion. Find out what your child already knows about
drugs.
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